Carmen Elder nee Gray


January 31,1934
September 26, 2019

Carmen Elizabeth Gray, native of North Burke, New York, passed away on September 26, 2019, aged 86 years. Predeceased by her first husband Daniel L. Tully, and her second husband William Hooker, also by her son-in-law Brian J. McCaffrey. She leaves to mourn her husband Donald M. Elder, her children Dan (Cherie), Gerry (Jane) and Ruth, her step children Brent (Nicole), Blake (Beth) and Dean (Sharon), also many grandchildren and great grandchildren. A graveside service will take place on Saturday, October 5, 2019 at 2 p.m. at the Athelstan Cemetery. The familly will be holding a time of fellowship with refreshments in the basement of the Athelstan Presbytarian Church. In lieu of flowers donations in her memory may be made to The Ladies' Auxiliary of the Huntingdon County Hospital or the Huntingdon County Hospital Foundation. Funeral entrusted to Rodrigue Montpetit et Fils Inc. 170 Châteauguay St., Huntingdon, Quebec J0S 1H0, 450-264-5331. Online condolences and tributes may be made at

Condoleances (14)

  • Betty & Lynn McIntyre

    Dear Donnie & Family,
    Our sincere sympathy to you all on the passing of Carmen, she is now at peace and out of pain.

    Monday, Sep 30 2019 1:46:25pm
  • Isobel Welburn

    Ruth, my sincerest condolences on the loss of your mother. Thinking of you and your family.

    Monday, Sep 30 2019 2:29:50pm
  • Linda Furey

    My sincere sympathy to all of the family. Carmen was a very special lady. I have many good memories of the time we were in the ladies auxillary of the fire dept. She will be missed by many. I hope the many happy memories you share will help you through this difficult time. Linda

    Monday, Sep 30 2019 6:56:40pm
  • Marjorie Howie

    Sending our most sincere condolences, our fondest memories are of summers spent at Moonlight Lake...Grace, Marjorie & Cheryl Howie

    Monday, Sep 30 2019 8:53:03pm
  • Bev Duheme

    Our deepest sympathy Donnie and all Carmen's family. Such a nice lady, may she rest in piece.

    Monday, Sep 30 2019 9:45:29pm
  • Wayne milne

    My condolences to all of Camen,s family

    Tuesday, Oct 1 2019 12:55:40am
  • Joy and David Levers

    Our deepest sympathy to you all.

    Tuesday, Oct 1 2019 4:27:49pm
  • Phil and Elaine Wood

    Our sincere condolences to Don and family. Lovely lady and neighbour at Moonlight Lake.

    Tuesday, Oct 1 2019 7:18:36pm
  • Denis & Cheryl Pilon

    Our deepest sympathy to all the family. She was such a kind person.

    Wednesday, Oct 2 2019 2:10:29pm
  • Marlene and Glenn Scott

    Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Our deepest sympathies.

    Wednesday, Oct 2 2019 6:31:50pm
  • Jean Robertson

    Donnie, I'm so sorry for your loss - but glad that Carmen is now at peace. She was such a gentle, lovely lady.

    Thursday, Oct 3 2019 10:45:02pm
  • Pam Webb Thwaites

    She was a lovely lady, please accept my condolences on your loss,

    Thursday, Oct 3 2019 11:22:30pm
  • Norman & Pearl Fennell

    We wish to express our deepest sympathies to her whole family.

    Wednesday, Oct 9 2019 11:44:26am
  • Suzanne Robidoux

    I am so sorry for you loss. She was such a nice lady.

    Saturday, Nov 9 2019 3:32:41am

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